I'll say, from the outset, I'm not brilliant at reviews. However, I do read a handful of different books/magazines/online media, largely fashion & art related. So, in the interests of documenting & sharing stuff, I can throw out my two pennies and we can all have a merry time.
One book I repeatedly seem to go back to is
The Cheap Date Guide to Style. Written in 2006 by Kira Jolliffe and Bay Garnett, as a sort of spin-off from
Cheap Date Magazine, the premise is simply to encourage readers to use clothes as a canvas for self-expression and individuality, rather than sheepishly following this season's must-haves (there is a slight difference between cherry-picking trends to fit you rather than the other way around...). Whilst we're told that the information applies to shopping anywhere (
"Our advice in this book applies to shopping at Selfridges, car-boot sales, Topshop, Grandma's wardrobe and Prada alike.") I'd suggest that the focus is largely on thriftiness. Arguably for some, it could represent the beginnings of the thrift movement we've seen in recent years.
Cheap Date (book) is now 4 years old (has it been that long?!), but the information in it isn't really that time-specific. I can read it now quite happily and find that nothing much has dated and the message is still as fresh as it was 4 years ago. Reviews by
Style Bubble and
Bits + Bobbins around the time, suggested that it's not so much a style
guide, but a style
affirmation. And I still think this is the best way to describe it. Though there are a few suggestions of 'basics', 'classics' and so forth, it's really not the kind of book you read if you want a list of what you should buy or wear. It is, however, the kind of book you read if you want to be inspired to embrace your individual spirit and experiment with finding your personal style.
I think perhaps this is the reason why I find myself going back to it so frequently. It's a kind of reminder, when stuck in a rut or otherwise, to just... go have some fun dressing up again. Like you did when you were a nipper. Reminders that fashion isn't always about
money, standardised
beauty,
age, trends, shallowness or any other idiotic associations you can think of. It is a book which has, unequivocally, influenced
my approach to fashion and style and is perhaps, the closest thing I'd get to a style manifesto at present.
The book itself is just larger than A5 sized, hardback and the right thickness not to feel like you're being preached to. I can't authoritatively comment on layout design but in my ill-informed opinion, it works. It's got a kind of DIY-aesthetic, rough around the edges with a simple cohesion and not overly designed. That raw 'hey-I-took-this-picture-in-my-bedroom-with-my-magic-little-point-and-shoot-and-damn-I-like-this-garment' look that blogs had back in the days before everyone seemed to get a dslr (for the record, I do not own a dslr). Not that I object to using higher quality photos now, it's just, sometimes, it's too edited and the experimental appeal disappears.
Anyway,
Cheap Date is divided into roughly 9 sections running through what is style anyway, befriending your inner pal confidence, basics, classics, finding inspiration, possible places to hunt out your treasures, accessories and that all important magic touch. Okay, all the kinds of information that any clever soul will have figured out already and probably read on a handful of blogs (perhaps see my blogroll to the left if you're at a loss here) over the years. It is however, a light-hearted, funny read and in a handy compact touchable format. Without trying to make this sound like a sales pitch (can you tell I love it yet?), if
Cheap Date doesn't leave you feeling like taking charge of your style, then I'll err... eat my hat?*
* I own one hat and rather like it, so you can see why that would be hard.
So the negatives? I'd definitely say one massive drawback is that
Cheap Date is kaput now. Jolliffe and Garnett work independently on their own projects, which is fine because as the Beatles showed, good things can't last forever. Sometimes there seems to be a dire lack of empowering fashion magazines which show that clothes can be fun whilst being more than frivolity, and I suspect
Cheap Date might have filled the gap. An anti-fashion fashion magazine as it were. Perhaps though, it's for the better, because it leaves space for little rays of sunshine such as
Worn or
Fat Quarter (which I haven't read admittedly, but find curious) or what have you. I'd also say that some of the interviewees seemed a little off compared to the overall message of the book, but perhaps it's more to show a range of opinions. Additionally, it is still a very western-world-centric book, which is only a fault if you fail to consider the writers background and who the primary audience (girls in mainly Britain - though obviously, it's not limited to that group) is. The lack of strong diversity is difficult to criticise because I do not believe that it was intentional nor does it undermine the overall point of this book.

Honestly, I know not everyone will subscribe to the same philosophy with style and thankfully, we won't all agree on what's cool or not, but if there is one book which shows you there is no right or wrong, it's this. I'd make it required reading for anyone who needs that kick-start to open their mind up and start listening to their inner voice. It's not a rulebook and this isn't me telling you to go buy the book (though I do recommend it if you want to) it's simply, as Kira and Bay say,
"style - to state the bleedin' obvious - is in you." - so go embrace it!